Growing in a Relationship with Jesus

Growing in a relationship with Jesus is much like growing in any meaningful relationship. When we meet someone new, we exchange names, ask questions, spend time together, and little by little, trust and love begin to form. Friendships grow through honesty, shared experiences, and time invested.
But Jesus is not like us—He is the source of life itself. He holds our very breath in His hands and sustains the world by the power of His Word. The difference in walking with Him is that this relationship is not only about knowing about Him, but living in daily fellowship with Him. In a true, loving walk with Jesus, He pours into us what no human friend ever could: His promises, His strength, His peace, His victory, and His power to truly live.

Steps to Grow in a Relationship with Jesus

1. Spend Time in His Word 📖
“Your word is a lamp to guide my feet and a light for my path.” — Psalm 119:105
“Like newborn babies, you must crave pure spiritual milk so that you will grow into a full experience of salvation. Cry out for this nourishment.” — 1 Peter 2:2
How to do it:

• Set aside a daily time to read the Bible. Start with a Gospel (like John) to learn Jesus’ heart.
• Read slowly and prayerfully. Ask, “What does this show me about who God is?”
• Write down verses that stand out and try to memorize them.

2. Talk with Him in Prayer 🙏
“Pray without ceasing.” — 1 Thessalonians 5:17
“Don’t worry about anything; instead, pray about everything. Tell God what you need, and thank him for all he has done.” — Philippians 4:6
How to do it:

• Begin your day by talking to Jesus, even before you get out of bed.
• Share your worries, joys, and needs with Him honestly.
• Practice listening — after you pray, sit quietly and let Him speak through His Word or a gentle prompting of the Spirit.

3. Obey His Word 🚶‍♀️
“If you love me, obey my commandments.” — John 14:15
“But don’t just listen to God’s word. You must do what it says. Otherwise, you are only fooling yourselves.” — James 1:22
How to do it:

• When you read Scripture, ask: “What is God asking me to do?”
• Take small steps — forgive, serve, speak truth, or let go of sin.
• Keep a journal of moments where you chose obedience, and notice how your trust in Him grows.

4. Worship Him 🙌
“God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.” — John 4:24
“Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer to God a sacrifice of praise—the fruit of lips that openly profess his name.” — Hebrews 13:15
How to do it:

• Worship through music, singing at home, or joining with others in church.
• Worship through gratitude — thank Him daily for specific blessings.
• Make worship a lifestyle by honoring Him with your thoughts, words, and actions.

5. Walk in Fellowship with Others 🤝
“Let us think of ways to motivate one another to acts of love and good works. And let us not neglect our meeting together…” — Hebrews 10:24–25
“As iron sharpens iron, so one person sharpens another.” — Proverbs 27:17
How to do it:

• Join a local church or small group where you can grow together.
• Share your struggles and victories with trusted Christian friends.
• Look for ways to serve others — community builds when we give, not just when we receive.

6. Rely on His Spirit 🔥
“Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives.” — Galatians 5:25
“You will receive power when the Holy Spirit comes upon you. And you will be my witnesses…” — Acts 1:8
How to do it:

• Each morning, pray: “Holy Spirit, lead me today. Help me to obey Your voice.”
• Learn to recognize His guidance — often gentle nudges to encourage, avoid sin, or act in faith.
• Trust His power, not your own strength, to overcome temptation and live with boldness.

✨ Growing in Jesus is not a checklist but a daily walk. As you spend time in His Word, talk with Him, obey Him, worship Him, walk with His people, and rely on His Spirit — your relationship will deepen, and your life will overflow with His love, peace, and power.